Caution: Writing Your Own Deed to Avoid Probate Can Lead to Unintended Consequences

One common way to avoid probate of real estate after the owner dies is to hold the title to the property in joint names with rights of survivorship with children or other beneficiaries.  This is accomplished by adding the names of the children and certain legal terms to a new deed for the property and then recording it in the applicable public land records.  

Many people believe that they do not need to pay an attorney to help them prepare and record the new deed.  Instead, they think that a deed form can simply be downloaded from the internet or obtained from a book that can then be easily filled out and recorded.  But deeds are in fact legal documents that must comply with state law in order to be valid.  In addition, in most states, property will not pass to the other owners listed in a deed without probate unless certain specific legal terms are used in the deed.

How is a Defective Deed or an Invalid Deed Corrected?  

If the problems with a defective deed or an invalid deed are discovered before the owner dies, then the problems can be addressed by preparing and recording a “corrective deed” in the applicable public land records.  This should only be done with the assistance of an attorney.

Unfortunately, many times the problems with a defective deed or an invalid deed are not discovered until after the owner dies.  If this is the case, then the problems cannot be fixed with a corrective deed since the deceased owner is unable to sign the corrective deed.  Instead, the property will most likely need to be probated in order to fix the problems with the title.  Aside from probate taking time and costing money for legal fees and court expenses, until the problems with the title are sorted out in probate court, heirs will not be able to sell the property.  Or, worse yet, the property may be inherited by someone the owner had intended to disinherit when they prepared and recorded their own deed. 

What Should You Do?

If you want to add your children or other beneficiaries to your deed in order to avoid probate, and you think you can save a few bucks by using a form you find on the internet or in a book, think again.  Deeds are legal documents that have very specific requirements and are governed by different laws in each state (in other words, a deed that is valid in New York may not necessarily be valid in Florida).  

If you want your home or other real estate to pass to your children or other beneficiaries without probate, then seek the advice of an attorney who is familiar with the probate and real estate laws of the state where your property is located. This will insure that the deed will be valid and your property will in fact avoid probate and pass to your intended heirs.

Contact Bobby Sawyer at (704) 944.3275 or bobby@csjlawonline.com with any questions or issues, or if you would like to discuss some strategies for addressing this topic.  

Should You Disinherit a Child?

Most parents choose to leave their estates equally to their children. But sometimes, parents intentionally choose to not leave anything to a child. There may be what the parents consider to be a legitimate reason: one child has been more financially successful than the others; not wanting a special needs child to lose government benefits; or not wanting to leave an inheritance to an irresponsible or drug-dependent child. Sometimes a parent wants to disinherit a child who is estranged from the family, or to use disinheritance as a way to get even and have the last word.

Regardless of the reason, disinheriting a child is hurtful, permanent, and will affect that child’s relationship with his or her siblings. The courts are full of siblings who sue each other over inheritances but even if they don’t sue, it is highly unlikely they will be having family dinners together. Money aside, there is symbolic meaning to receiving something from a parent’s estate. 

Disinheriting a child may be short-sighted and even completely unnecessary. For example:

• A child who appears to be more successful financially may have trouble behind the scenes. The inheritance may be needed now or in the future: finances can change, marriages can collapse, and people can become ill. And unless specific provision is made for them, grandchildren from this child will also be disinherited.
• A spouse, child, sibling, parent or other loved one who is physically, mentally or developmentally disabled—from birth, illness, injury or even substance abuse—may be entitled to government benefits now or in the future. Most of these benefits are available only to those with very minimal assets and income. But you do not have to disinherit this person. A special needs trust can be carefully designed to supplement and not jeopardize benefits provided by local, state, federal or private agencies.
• A child who is irresponsible with money or is under the influence of drugs or alcohol may not be the ideal candidate to receive an inheritance of any size. But this child may need financial help now or in the future, and may even become a responsible adult. Instead of disinheriting the child, establish a trust and give the trustee discretion in providing or withholding financial assistance; you can stipulate any requirements you want the child to meet.

How we choose to include our children in our estate plans says a good deal about our values and faith. Not disinheriting a child who has caused grief and heartache can convey a message of love and forgiveness, while disinheriting a child, even for what seems to be good cause, can convey a lack of love, anger and resentment.

If you have previously disinherited a child and you have since reconciled, update your plan immediately. If your decision to disinherit a child is final, your attorney will know the best way to handle it. Consider telling your child that you are disinheriting him or her so it doesn’t come as a complete surprise. Explaining your reasons will allow for honest discussion, may help deter the child from blaming siblings later and may prevent a costly court battle.

Contact Bobby Sawyer at (704) 944.3275 or bobby@csjlawonline.com with any questions or issues, or if you would like to discuss some strategies for addressing this topic.  

Is a Revocable Living Trust Right for You?

Revocable Living Trusts have become the basic building block of estate plans for people of all ages, personal backgrounds, and financial situations. But for some, a Revocable Living Trust may not be necessary to achieve their estate planning goals or may even be detrimental to achieving those goals.

What Are the Advantages of a Revocable Living Trust Over a Will?

Revocable Living Trusts have become popular because when compared with a Last Will and Testament, a Revocable Living Trust offers the following advantages:

1. A Revocable Living Trust protects your privacy by keeping your final wishes a private family matter, since only your beneficiaries and Trustees are entitled to read the trust agreement after your death.  On the other hand, a Last Will and Testament that is filed with the probate court becomes a public court record which is available for the whole world to read.
2. A Revocable Living Trust provides instructions for your care and the management of your property if you become mentally incapacitated.  Since a Last Will and Testament only goes into effect after you die, it cannot be used for incapacity planning.
3. If you fund all of your assets into a Revocable Living Trust prior to your death, then those assets will avoid probate.  On the other hand, property that passes under the terms of a Last Will and Testament usually has to be probated. A probate could add thousands of dollars of costs at your death.

Why Shouldn’t You Use a Revocable Living Trust?

Although Revocable Living Trusts offer privacy protection, incapacity planning, and probate avoidance, they are not for everyone.

For example, if your main concern is avoiding probate of your assets after you die, then you may be able to accomplish this goal without the use a Revocable Living Trust by using joint ownership, life estates, and payable on death or transfer on death accounts and deeds.  However, those strategies aren't a perfect fit for everyone.

In addition, if you are concerned about protecting your assets in case you need nursing home care, then an Irrevocable Living Trust, instead of a Revocable Living Trust, may be the best option for preserving your estate for the benefit of your family. The rules governing Irrevocable Living Trusts can be very complex, and you should only create an Irrevocable Living Trust after a thorough discussion with a qualified trust attorney.

Do You Still Need a Revocable Living Trust?

While some estate planning attorneys advise their clients against using a Revocable Living Trust under any circumstance, others advise their clients to use one under every circumstance.  Either approach fails to take into consideration the fact that Revocable Living Trusts are definitely not “one size fits all.”  Instead, your family and financial situations must be carefully evaluated on an individual basis and the advantages and disadvantages of using a Revocable Living Trust must be weighed against your personal concerns and estate planning goals.  In addition, these factors must be re-evaluated every few years since your family and financial situations, concerns, and goals will change over time.

If you have a Revocable Living Trust and it has been a few years since it has been reviewed, then we can help you determine if a Revocable Living Trust is still the right choice for you and your family.

Contact Bobby Sawyer at (704) 944.3275 or bobby@csjlawonline.com with any questions or issues, or if you would like to discuss some strategies for addressing this topic.  

Three Liability Planning Tips for Physicians Anyone Can Use

Whether you are a physician or not, you probably know that the practice of medicine is a profession fraught with liability.  It’s not just medical malpractice claims either – employment related issues
, careless business partners and employees, contractual obligations, and personal liabilities add to the risk assumed by a physician in private practice.  Unfortunately, in our litigious society, these liability risks are not unique to physicians.  Business owners, board members, real estate investors, and retirees need to protect themselves from a variety of liabilities too. 

Below are three liability planning tips anyone – physicians and non-physicians alike – can use to protect their hard earned money.

Tip #1 – Insurance is the First Line of Defense Against Liability

Liability insurance is the first line of defense against a claim.  Liability insurance provides a source of funds to pay legal fees as well as settlements or judgments. Types of insurance you should have in place include (as applicable):

• Homeowner’s insurance
• Property and casualty insurance
• Excess liability insurance (also known as “umbrella” insurance)
• Automobile and other vehicle (motorcycle, boat, airplane) insurance
• General business insurance
• Professional liability insurance
• Directors and officers insurance

Tip #2 – State Exemptions Protect a Variety of Personal Assets From Lawsuits

Each state has a set of laws and/or constitutional provisions that partially or completely exempt certain types of assets owned by residents from the claims of creditors.  While these laws vary widely from state to state, in general you may be able to protect the following types of assets from a judgment entered against you under applicable state law:

• Primary residence (referred to as “homestead” protection in some states)
• Qualified retirement plans (401Ks, profit sharing plans, money purchase plans, IRAs)
• Life insurance (cash value)
• Annuities
• Property co-owned with a spouse as “tenants by the entirety” (only available to married couples; and may only apply to real estate, not personal property, in some states)
• Wages
• Prepaid college plans
• Section 529 plans
• Disability insurance payments
• Social Security benefits

Tip #3 – Business Entities Protect Business and Personal Assets From Lawsuits

Business entities include partnerships, limited liability companies, and corporations.  Business owners need to mitigate the risks and liabilities associated with owning a business, and real estate investors need to mitigate the risks and liabilities associated with owning real estate, through the use of one or more entities.  The right structure for your enterprise should take into consideration asset protection, income taxes, estate planning, retirement funding, and business succession goals.

Business entities can also be an effective tool for protecting your personal assets from lawsuits.  In many states, assets held within a limited partnership or a limited liability company are protected from the personal creditors of an owner.  In many cases, the personal creditors of an owner cannot step into the owner’s shoes and take over the business.  Instead, the creditor is limited to a “charging order” which only gives the creditor the rights of an assignee.  In general this limits the creditor to receiving distributions from the entity if and when they are made.

Final Advice for Protecting Your Assets

Liability insurance, exemption planning, and business entities should be used together to create a multi-layered liability protection plan.  Our firm is experienced with helping physicians, business owners, board members, real estate investors, and retirees create and—just as important—maintain a comprehensive liability protection plan.  Please call our office if you have any questions about this type of planning.  

Contact Bobby Sawyer at (704) 944.3275 or bobby@csjlawonline.com with any questions or issues, or if you would like to discuss some strategies for addressing this topic.  

How to Easily Integrate Asset Protection Trusts into Your Estate Plan

Asset protection has become a common goal of estate planning.  Asset protection trusts come in many different forms and can be used to protect property for your use and benefit as well as for the use and benefit of your family.  

What is An Asset Protection Trust?

An asset protection trust is a special type of irrevocable trust in which the trust funds are held and invested by the Trustee and are only distributed on a discretionary basis.  The purpose of an asset protection trust is to keep the trust funds safe and secure for the benefit of the beneficiaries instead of having the funds be an available resource to pay a beneficiary’s debts.  

Asset Protection Trusts Equal Inheritance Protection

Leaving an inheritance outright to your child or grandchild without any strings attached is risky in this day and age of high divorce rates, lawsuits, and bankruptcies.  Aside from this, your beneficiaries may not have developed the financial skills necessary to manage their inheritance over the long run.  There is also the very real risk that an outright inheritance left to your spouse will end up in the hands of a new spouse instead of in the hands of your children or grandchildren.  Finally, a beneficiary may be born with a disability or develop one later in life that will end up rapidly depleting their inheritance to pay for medical and other bills. 

There are a number of different types of asset protection trusts that you can establish to insure your hard earned money is used only for the benefit of your family:

• Trusts for minor beneficiaries – Minor beneficiaries cannot legally accept an inheritance, so a discretionary trust for a minor is a necessity.
• Trusts for adult beneficiaries – Adult beneficiaries who are not good with managing money, are in a lawsuit-prone profession, have an overreaching spouse, or have an addiction problem will benefit from a lifetime discretionary trust.  
• Trusts for surviving spouses – If you are worried that your spouse will not be able to manage their inheritance, will remarry, or will need nursing home care, you can require your spouse’s inheritance to be held in a lifetime discretionary trust. 
• Trusts for disabled beneficiaries – Disabled beneficiaries who receive an inheritance outright run the risk of losing government benefits and will need to spend down the funds to requalify, but an inheritance left to a special needs trust can be used to supplement, not replace, government assistance.

Drafting an Asset Protection Trust Your Way

Asset protection trusts designed for inheritance protection can be as rigid or as flexible as you choose.  For example, a beneficiary can be added as a co-trustee at a certain age or after the beneficiary reaches a specific goal such as graduating from college.  Another option is to name a corporate trustee, such a bank or trust company, but give the beneficiary the right to remove and replace the corporate trustee with another one.  

You can also make trust distributions as limited or as broad as you choose.  For example, you can state that the funds can only be used to pay medical bills or for education, or the Trustee can be given broad discretion to make distributions in the best interests of the beneficiary.  You may also want to require the Trustee to take into consideration the beneficiary’s income and other assets before making distributions.  Alternatively, the Trustee can be given the authority to deplete the trust for one of the beneficiaries to the detriment of the remainder beneficiaries.  If there are multiple beneficiaries, such as a trust for the benefit of your spouse and your children, the Trustee can be directed to give preferential treatment to one or more beneficiaries over the others. 

The Bottom Line on Asset Protection Trusts

Asset protection trusts offer a great deal of planning opportunities for people of even modest means.  We are available to answer your questions about asset protection trusts and help you integrate this type of planning into your estate plan. 

Contact Bobby Sawyer at (704) 944.3275 or bobby@csjlawonline.com with any questions or issues, or if you would like to discuss some strategies for addressing this topic.  

Blended Families and the Need for Estate Planning

Anyone with children or modest assets should seriously consider some minimal estate planning, but the increasing number of blended families underscores the need for proper estate planning.

Blended families can involve children from a prior marriage as well as joint children, sometimes joking referred to as “his, hers and theirs.”  And blended families involve both younger and older couples, and nearly everyone in between.

When the new spouse is significantly younger, this sometimes means that the older spouse’s children are close in age to the younger.  These relationships can cause more than friction between the step-parent and step-children.

Most parents want to ensure that their assets will pass to their children, not their stepchildren.  However, absent good estate planning, there is no guarantee that their children will inherit their assets.  In fact, if the couple creates common “I love you” wills such that their assets pass to the survivor of them, there is a significant likelihood their children will be totally disinherited.

This is because all of their assets will pass to the surviving spouse to do with as he or she pleases. More often than not this means excluding the stepchildren, who then receive nothing. 

The fact that Americans are living longer, and sometimes remarrying much later in life, means that blended family issues come into play there too. A recent USA Today article, titled With more blended families, estate planning gets ugly, highlights some of these issues.  The full article is available online.

As this article states, “[a]dd the gaping generational divide between Depression-era parents, who valued frugality above all else, and their Baby Boomer children, who relish self-reward, and the dynamics can be explosive.”

Thus, baby boomer children expecting an inheritance may have to wait much longer than expected. But perhaps more difficult, who should pay for the cost of the surviving spouse’s care? Should the stepchildren be forced to use their inheritance to pay for an aging step-parent’s care, particularly after only a short-term marriage?  Or should this burden fall on the children?

There is no one right answer here, but these questions epitomize the many questions that arise with blended families. These questions should be answered with the help of counsel and proper planning.

Contact Bobby Sawyer at (704) 944.3275 or bobby@csjlawonline.com with any questions or issues, or if you would like to discuss some strategies for addressing this topic.  

Why Does a Living Trust Cost More than a Will?

It will probably cost more initially to set up a well-drafted living trust than to have a will prepared. A true cost comparison should include not only the expense to establish the will or trust, but also what it will cost should you become incapacitated and after you die.

The Key Takeaways:

• A living trust document has more provisions than a will because it deals with issues while you are living and after you die, while a will only deals with issues that occur after your death.
• A properly prepared and funded living trust will avoid court proceedings at incapacity and death. A will provides no such protection and can, in fact, ensure court intervention at both events, which can be very costly (in time, privacy and dollars) to your family.

Instructions at Death and Incapacity

Both a will and a living trust contain instructions for distributing your assets after you die. But a living trust also contains your instructions for managing your assets and your care should you become incapacitated.

A Living Trust Avoids the Costs of Court Interference at Incapacity and Death

A properly prepared and funded living trust (one that holds all of your assets) will avoid the need for a court guardianship and/or conservatorship if you become incapacitated. The person(s) you select will be able to manage your care and your assets privately, with no court interference.

A will can only go into effect at your death, so it can provide no instructions regarding incapacity. In that case, your family would almost certainly have to ask the court to establish a guardianship and/or conservatorship for your care and your assets—a process that is public, time consuming, expensive and difficult to end.

What You Need to Know.  The same living trust document that can keep you out of a court guardianship at incapacity can also keep your family out of probate court when you die. But a will must go through probate. Depending on where you live, this can be costly and time consuming.

                                                        

Costs to Transfer Assets…Pay Now or Later

There may be some minor costs to transfer assets into your living trust when you set it up, and then from your trust to your beneficiaries after you die. But these will be minimal if you and your successor trustee do much of the work yourselves. With a will, the probate court (with its costs and attorney fees) is the only way to transfer your assets to your heirs after you die. So you can pay now to set up your trust and transfer titles, or you can pay the courts and attorneys to do this for you after you die.

Actions to Consider

• Find out what probate costs are where you live. If your state has a fee schedule based on the value of probate assets, this will be fairly easy. If it has “reasonable” fees, ask an attorney to estimate what these fees would be if you die tomorrow and, if you are married, if your spouse dies the next day.
• Similarly, ask your attorney to estimate what the costs would be if you become incapacitated tomorrow and, if you are married, if your spouse becomes incapacitated the next day. (Practically speaking, this will be impossible to estimate because no one will be able to predict how long the incapacity will last or what complications might arise. The mere uncertainty of these costs should give you pause—and propel you to plan for incapacity.)
• Add these estimates to the cost of having a will prepared—and compare that to the cost of a living trust. When you make a true comparison, you may conclude that having a living trust actually costs less than a will.

Contact Bobby Sawyer at (704) 944.3275 or bobby@csjlawonline.com with any questions or issues, or if you would like to discuss some strategies for addressing this topic.

Does Your Estate Plan Protect Your Adult Beneficiaries?

If you think you only need to create discretionary lifetime trusts for young beneficiaries, problem
beneficiaries, or financially inexperienced beneficiaries, then think again.  In this day and age of frivolous lawsuits and high divorce rates, discretionary lifetime trusts should be considered for all of your beneficiaries, minors and adults alike.

What is a Discretionary Lifetime Trust?

A discretionary lifetime trust is a type of irrevocable trust that you can create while you are alive – in which case you will gift your assets into the trust for the benefit of your beneficiaries – or after you die – in which case your assets will be transferred into the trust for the benefit of your beneficiaries after death.  

The trust is discretionary because you dictate the limited circumstances when the trustee can reach in and take trust assets out for the use and benefit of the beneficiaries. For example, you can permit the trustee to use trust funds to pay for education expenses, health care costs, a wedding, buying a home, or starting a business.  If the trust is funded with sufficient assets that are invested prudently and you choose the right trustee to carry out your wishes, the trust funds could last for the beneficiary’s entire lifetime.  

How Does a Discretionary Lifetime Trust Protect an Inheritance?

With a discretionary lifetime trust each of your beneficiaries will have a fighting chance against lawsuits and divorcing spouses because their inheritance will be segregated inside of their trust and away from their own personal assets.  By creating this type of “box” around the inherited property, it shows the world that the inheritance is not the beneficiary’s property to do with as they please.  Instead, only the trustee can reach inside the box and, based on your specific instructions, pull funds out for the benefit of the beneficiary.  Creditors, predators, and divorcing spouses are generally blocked from reaching inside the box and taking property out.  

When the beneficiary dies, what is left inside their box will pass to the heirs you choose. You could decide, for example, to have the assets pass to your grandchildren inside their own separate boxes and on down the line, thereby creating a cascading series of discretionary lifetime trusts that will protect the inherited property and keep it in your family for decades to come. 

What Should You Do?

Does all of this sound too good to be true?  It’s not.  Our firm is available to discuss how you can incorporate discretionary lifetime trusts into your estate plan.  Your family will certainly be glad you did.

Contact Bobby Sawyer at (704) 944.3275 or bobby@csjlawonline.com with any questions or issues, or if you would like to discuss some strategies for addressing this topic.

Are You Wasting Money? Part 3: Taxes, Insurance, Not Bidding and/or Negotiating

So far in this series on wasting money (part 1 and part 2), we have looked at how people may overpay for housing, interest, transportation, food, clothing and entertainment. In this last part, we will look at a few more areas in which we may pay more than necessary—taxes, insurance, not obtaining bids for services, and not negotiating for large purchases.

While you may already be astute in these areas, sharing good financial practices like these with your children and/or grandchildren can be part of your legacy, as you help them prepare to be prudent and responsible beneficiaries. And, for tax management and risk management (via insurance coverage), your legal and advisory team can produce integrated tools to assist you in keeping more of your money within the family than having it leak out unnecessarily.

The Key Takeaways

• Any time you pay more for something than you have to, money is wasted.
• Reviewing tax deductions and insurance coverage, comparison shopping, bidding out services and repairs, and negotiating—these take time, but they can help save significantly.
• Any time you save money, you are being financially responsible and will find more money for the expenses in life that are really important to you.

Where People Waste Money…And Actions to Consider

1. Taxes. Take every deduction to which you are entitled. Even if a professional prepares your tax returns, it is a good idea to become familiar with allowable deductions. For example, charitable deductions, even small ones, add up—if you volunteer, keep track of your mileage and financial contributions; fill out the form when you make clothing and household donations; and instead of dropping cash into the offering box at your place of worship, write a check or set up automatic payments.  Of course, if you have significant charitable interests, trust-based strategies offer you cost effectiveness and a disciplined structure.

2. Insurance. Review your policies every year. Property values change, and it’s important to not over- (or under-) insure. For example, an older car may not need collision insurance. Increasing deductibles will save on premiums. Bundling various policies (home, autos, personal liability, jewelry) under one insurer will probably earn you discounts and save time.

3. Not getting bids when hiring workers. Asking friends and neighbors for references is a good start, but it is also important to get at least three estimates. And remember, the lowest price is not always the best value.

4. Not periodically rebidding current products and services. Being loyal is commendable, but not if it causes you to pay more than necessary. If you are able to find a lower price, your current provider may match it to keep you as a customer.

5. Not negotiating for large purchases. We all know there is profit margin built into pricing, and there is usually a larger margin on expensive items. Some vendors actually expect to negotiate. Learning how to negotiate fairly and respectfully will frequently save you some money.

What You Need to Know: It’s easy to get caught up in the current culture of instant gratification and impulse spending. We could all benefit from slowing down a bit and becoming better consumers. Taking the time to evaluate purchases and comparison shop will not only help avoid overspending and wasting money, but it results in satisfaction from being responsible and efficient with money. 

More Actions to Consider

• Evaluate how you may be overspending in these areas. Commit to following through on some of these suggestions and note how much money you save.
• Think where you could use that extra money. Would you like to pay off some debt, or save for a family vacation, car, home, college, or charitable gift?
• Start to prioritize spending and set some money-saving goals. Creating a budget and monitoring spending on a regular basis will help avoid wasting money and start meeting goals you set. (For more on this, read the previous blogs on budgeting and setting spending priorities.) 

Contact Bobby Sawyer at (704) 944.3275 or bobby@csjlawonline.com with any questions or issues, or if you would like to discuss some strategies for addressing this topic.

Are You Wasting Money? Part 2: Food, Clothing and Entertainment

In Part One of this series on wasting money, we looked at housing, interest and transportation—areas in which you or your loved ones may be wasting larger amounts of money. In Part Two, we will look at how money can be wasted in everyday areas of life—specifically food, clothing and entertainment.  

In many ways, it is the routine purchases that occur without planning that subsequently accumulate to large amounts. An area of high importance when making beneficiary distributions is for the money to be used in meaningful ways such as home purchases, education, and investing and not simply to cover shortfalls in month-to-month expenditures. These simple lessons are helpful reminders for everyone.

The Key Takeaways

• Money is wasted when we pay more for convenience, excess, impulse buying and bad habits.
• While this may be okay if it happens occasionally, living a lifestyle that consistently wastes money can cause people to live beyond their means and incur debt, which causes more money to be wasted by paying interest on that debt.
• Recognizing areas in which money is wasted, and taking steps to change buying habits, helps keep people out of debt and give more money to spend on the things that really matter.

Where People Waste Money…And Actions to Consider

Groceries. We’ve all been guilty of buying more at the grocery store than we intended. Here are a few tips that will likely fit within a current routine:

1. Plan meals for a week, make a shopping list and stick with it. Make an exception only if something regularly used is on sale. 
2. Use coupons only for items regularly purchased (and don’t buy things you don’t normally use, just to use the coupon). 
3. Buy in bulk; split the purchases with a friend if storage space is lacking. 
4. Shop without young children whenever possible to save money, time and frustration.

Eating out. If the amount of money spent in this area is unknown, track it for a month or two and consider other ways that this money could be spent. Socializing with friends over meals is important, but this is one area that usually can be reined in. Meet over lunch or an early dinner. Watch the alcohol; bar drinks are expensive, add up quickly and make an affordable meal completely unaffordable. Consider entertaining at home; it is less expensive and more personal.

Clothing. Take a look at how much is spent on clothing, especially on items purchased and not worn. Avoid shopping as a hobby or because of boredom; retailers are great at making people think something is needed.

Entertainment. Evaluate cable or satellite TV subscriptions and drop the premium channels not being used. Monitor cell phone bills. Investigate bundling phone, internet and TV services under one carrier. When going to the movie theater, go to early showings, buy discounted tickets, shop for bargain-priced theaters, and bring snacks. Check out community theater productions.

What You Need to Know:
Cash expenditures are usually the most difficult to track. Consider the envelope system (cash set aside in envelopes marked for specific cash purchases); place the receipts inside the envelope so it is easy to remember how cash was spent. Or use a debit card for even the smallest purchases.

More Actions to Consider

• Review how money is currently spent. If not using a personal accounting program like Quicken to track spending, now would be a good time to start. Carefully evaluate areas where overspending occurs.
• Start comparison shopping. Make a list of items bought regularly, including size and the last price paid. Keep the list handy for other shopping trips and compare prices. Then make a new shopping list for items at the stores with the best prices.
• Keep a running grocery list. As an item gets in short supply, add it to the list. This will make grocery shopping more efficient and save time by not having to make frequent trips.

Contact Bobby Sawyer at (704) 266.0727 or rsawyer@sawyer-law.com with any questions or issues, or if you would like to discuss some strategies for addressing this topic.

Are You Wasting Money? Part 1 - Housing, Interest and Transportation

Most of us are guilty of wasting money in one way or another. Often we are so busy that we pay too much for convenience, and we don’t comparison shop or look for bargains. Sometimes we waste money because we just stay in the same routines—shopping at the same stores, eating at the same places, using the same services. And sometimes, especially if we don’t keep good records of how we spend our money, we may not even realize how much money we are wasting.

In this three-part series, we look at ways that money is wasted. While it may not apply to you, there are others in your life such as children or grandchildren that will benefit from these lessons. For those with budgeting discipline, an element of your financial legacy is to teach and train others to live within their means. And, as these disciplines are learned by your beneficiaries, you gain greater comfort that valued purposes will be pursued with distributions.

The Key Takeaways

• Tracking and evaluating how money is spent helps illustrate areas of waste.
• Overspending can drive people into debt and prevent them from having money for things that really matter.
• Reducing wasteful spending helps people to live within their means and provide more money for things that are most important.

Major Spending Areas … And Actions to Consider

1. Housing. Living close to where one works definitely can save time and money on a commute, but moving to a neighborhood that is just a little farther out can save a bundle. If someone is retired or works from home, moving to a less expensive part of the country is an attractive option. 
2. Interest. Credit cards, student loans, car loans, home mortgage, home equity line of credit, other consumer loans—any time money is borrowed, interest payments accumulate. The most expensive of all is credit card debt. By renegotiating interest rates, not only are monthly payments reduced but considerable amounts of accumulated interest are also saved. Of course, great care needs to be taken when considering buying anything via debt.
3. Transportation. Car payments, insurance, gas, maintenance and repairs are necessary expenses, but there may be ways to economize. Some people can work from home one or two days a week. Since a new car depreciates the minute it is driven off the lot, buying a previously owned car can save thousands.

What You Need to Know: 

Eliminating wasteful spending is especially important for people who need to watch their expenses—retirees who may be on a fixed budget, those who have been laid off or are working part time, young families, and college graduates who are trying to start a career while repaying student loans. But even if plenty of money is at hand for living expenses, being a careful consumer helps money go further and adds important lessons to be passed to loved ones as a component of a financial legacy.

Other Actions to Consider

• Evaluate housing, interest and transportation expenses.
• Determine how much to spend in these high-cost areas and how much can be cut.
• Check out different neighborhoods and transportation options and see how much money can be saved.
• Call lenders and their competitors to see if better interest rates can be negotiated.
• Pay off debt as soon as possible. 

Contact Bobby Sawyer at (704) 266.0727 or rsawyer@sawyer-law.com with any questions or issues, or if you would like to discuss some strategies for addressing this topic.

Passion Investing as a Spark to Your Life

Bill Gates, Warren Buffet and over 50% of the Fortune 400’s The Richest People in America list have decided to give away their wealth for charitable pursuits. Of course, not many of us have that kind of money or are inclined to give away all we own. However, giving to charitable organizations is something that anyone can do, and we can all derive a similar satisfaction by investing in causes that light our passion.

The Key Takeaways

• Investing in a cause that we feel passionate about can give our lives new purpose.
• Even if we have limited finances, we can still find ways to contribute by giving of our time and/or talents.
• Our giving can influence subsequent generations and others around us by setting an example and communicating our values.

Finding Your Passion and Renewing Your Life

Americans like helping people and giving back to our communities. You may have already found your passion and are doing what you can to help. But if you are still searching for a way to make a difference, give some thought to what inspires you or what you care about deeply. It could be the arts, reading, the elderly, our military, disadvantaged children, teen mothers, or a clean planet. There are many organizations that need volunteers and financial help to do their good works. And, of course, most churches and religious organizations offer numerous ways to volunteer in your community and around the world.

What You Need to Know: 

One traditional way to benefit a charity is to leave a donation through a will or trust. This is good, of course, but if you contribute while you are living, there is the additional benefit of seeing the results of your contributions. You can also network with others who share your passion, which often results in greater contributions.

Actions to Consider

• If you have children at home, include them in your volunteer work. If you make a donation, deliver the check in person and take your children with you.
• If you are retired or nearing retirement, you have the benefit of extra time to donate to your favorite causes. Some people choose to work part time in retirement so they will have extra money for living expenses and for donations.
• Include all cash donations in your spending plan so they are part of your monthly expenses. Otherwise, you risk being an emotional or impulsive giver, which can have a negative impact on your finances.
• If you aren’t sure how to contribute, ask the organization you want to help. They are sure to have a number of suggestions with different time and money commitments.
• Whenever possible, work with local organizations that benefit your community. Get to know the people running the organization so you will know if they can be trusted with your contributions. This will also allow you to see the progress firsthand.
• If you have more substantial means, a charitable trust is an excellent way to give, and such a trust gives you many financial and non-financial benefits.

Contact Bobby Sawyer at (704) 266.0727 or rsawyer@sawyer-law.com with any questions or issues, or if you would like to discuss some strategies for addressing this topic.

It’s Not Just About Death and Taxes: The Essential Legal Documents You Need for Incapacity Planning

Comprehensive estate planning is about more than your legacy after death, avoiding probate, and saving on taxes. It must also be about having a plan in place to manage your affairs if you become mentally incapacitated during your life.  

What Happens Without an Incapacity Plan?

Without a comprehensive incapacity plan in place, a judge can appoint a guardian or conservator to take control of your assets and health care decisions.  This guardian or conservator will make all personal and medical decisions on your behalf as part of a court-supervised guardianship or conservatorship.  Until you regain capacity or die, you and your loved ones will be faced with an expensive and time-consuming guardianship or conservatorship proceeding. 

What Happens to Your Finances During Incapacity?

If you are legally incapacitated, you are legally unable to make financial, investment, or tax decisions for yourself. Of course, bills still need to be paid, tax returns still need to be filed, and an investment strategy still needs to be managed. 

So, you must have these two essential legal documents for managing finances in place prior to becoming incapacitated:

1. Financial Power of Attorney.  This legal document gives your agent the authority to pay bills, make financial decisions, manage investments, file tax returns, mortgage and sell real estate, and address other financial matters that are described in the document.   

Financial Powers of Attorney come in two forms:  “Durable” and “Springing.”  A Durable Power of Attorney goes into effect as soon as it is signed, while a Springing Power of Attorney only goes into effect after you have been declared mentally incapacitated.

2. Revocable Living Trust.  This legal document has three parties to it:  The person who creates the trust (you might see this written as “Trustmaker” or “Grantor” or “Settlor” – they all mean the same thing); the person who manages the assets transferred into the trust (the “Trustee”); and the person who benefits from the assets transferred into the trust (the “Beneficiary”).  In the typical situation you will be the Trustmaker, the Trustee, and the Beneficiary of your own revocable living trust, but if you ever become incapacitated, then your designated Successor Trustee will step in to manage the trust assets for your benefit.

Health Care Decisions Must Be Made Too

If you become legally incapacitated, you won’t be able to make health care decisions for yourself. Because of patient privacy laws, your loved ones may even be denied access to medical information during a crisis situation and end up in court fighting over what medical treatment you should, or should not, receive (like Terri Schiavo’s husband and parents did, for 15 years).  

So, you should have these three essential legal documents for making health care decisions in place prior to becoming incapacitated:

1. Medical Power of Attorney.  This legal document, also called an Advance Directive or Medical or Health Care Proxy, gives your agent the authority to make health care decisions if you become incapacitated.

2. Living Will.  This legal document gives your agent the authority to make life sustaining or life ending decisions if you become incapacitated.

3. HIPAA Authorization.  Federal and state laws dictate who can receive medical information without the written consent of the patient.  This legal document gives your doctor authority to disclose medical information to an agent selected by you.

Is Your Incapacity Plan Up to Date?

Once you get all of these legal documents for your incapacity plan in place, you cannot simply stick them in a drawer and forget about them.  Instead, your incapacity plan must be reviewed and updated periodically and if certain life events occur - such as moving to a new state or going through a divorce. If you keep your incapacity plan up to date, it should work the way you expect it to if it’s ever needed.

Contact Bobby Sawyer at (704) 266.0727 or rsawyer@sawyer-law.com with any questions or issues, or if you would like to discuss some strategies for addressing this topic.

Organize Information for Your Family

Think for a few moments about what would happen if you suddenly became incapacitated or died. Would your spouse or family know what to do? Would they know where to find important records, assets and insurance documents? Would they be able to access (or even know about) online accounts or files on your computer? Would they know whom to ask if they need help?  Putting the effort in now to establish a formal document inventory can alleviate unnecessary anxiety and turmoil in the future.

The Key Takeaways

• If you should suddenly become incapacitated or die, your family would need to know where to find the information they would need.
• Let your key relationships know where to find your document inventory.
• Do not assume your process will be readily understood by others; have a trial run to make sure they can find and understand your records.
• Keep your inventory current with an annual review.

What Information Would They Need?

There is a large volume of documents and information that your family would need during a calamitous event such as incapacitation (even temporary) or death. This basic list will help you start thinking of the critical information you would want your family to have.

• legal documents (will, living trust, health care documents);
• list of medications you are taking;
• list of your advisors (attorney, CPA, banker, insurance agent, financial advisor, physicians);
• insurance policies (health and life);
• year-end bank and investment account statements;
• storage facility location, access method, and inventory;
• list of other assets, including location, account numbers, date purchased and purchase price;
• safe deposit box location, list of contents and location of key;
• list of people to whom you owe money (mortgage, credit cards, etc.);
• list of people who owe you money;
• death or disability benefits from organizations;
• past tax returns.

Also, many of your records are probably on a computer or stored online. If you scan documents or receive financial statements electronically, someone else may not even know they exist. If you use a computer accounting program such as Quicken, QuickBooks or Mint, those records would be on your computer. Family photos may be stored digitally or online. Much of this information is password protected.

What You Need to Know

Your document inventory requires a methodical listing of both hard copy and digital forms.  While the effort will be more challenging at the start, the maintenance of the inventory is much simpler.  Be mindful that your digital footprint will likely grow much faster in the future than it has in the past. 

Actions to Consider

• Give current copies of your health care documents to your physicians and designated agent(s). 
• Keep your original documents in one safe place, like a fireproof safe or safe deposit box. Make copies for the notebook described next.
• Buy one or two three-ring binders to organize your personal and financial information. You can enter it by hand or create spreadsheets on your computer, but having it all in one or two binders will make it easy for your family to find and use. (If you leave it on your computer, they may never find it.) Include locations, contact information, account numbers and amounts.
• Include a list of online accounts and how to access them (including passwords).
• Clean up your computer desktop and put important files in an easy-to-find desktop folder.
• Have a trial run. Ask your spouse or other family member (or your successor trustee or executor) to pretend that he or she needs to access needed information.
• At least once a year, review and update your notebook, computer desktop files and passwords for online accounts.

Contact Bobby Sawyer at (704) 266.0727 or rsawyer@sawyer-law.com with any questions or issues, or if you would like to discuss some strategies for addressing this topic.

Five Things You Need to Know About the Recently Enacted ABLE Act

On December 19, 2014, President Obama signed the Achieving a Better Life Experience Act (ABLE
Act) into law.  The ABLE Act will allow certain individuals with disabilities to establish tax-free savings accounts that can be used to cover expenses not otherwise covered by government sponsored programs. These accounts can be a great alternative or supplement to special needs or supplemental needs trusts.

Here are five important things you need to know about the ABLE Act.

1. What is an ABLE account?  An ABLE account is similar to a 529 education savings account that helps families save for college.  It is a tax-free, state-based private savings account that can be used to pay for the care of people with disabilities.  Although income earned in the account will not be taxed, contributions to the account will not be tax deductible.

2. Who is eligible for an ABLE account?  Eligibility will be limited to individuals with significant disabilities with an age of onset of disability before turning 26 years of age. If an individual meets these criteria and is also receiving benefits under SSI and/or SSDI, they are automatically eligible to establish an ABLE account.  If the individual is not a recipient of SSI and/or SSDI but still meets the age of onset disability requirement, they will still be eligible to open an ABLE account if the SSI criteria regarding significant functional limitations are met.  In addition, the disabled individual may be over the age of 26 and establish an account if the individual has documentation of their disability that shows the age of onset occurred before the age of 26.

3. What are the limits for contributions to an ABLE account?  Each individual state will determine the total limit that can be contributed to an ABLE account over time.  Although we’ll need to wait for regulations to know the exact amount that can be contributed, the Act states that any individual can make annual contributions to an ABLE account up to the gift tax exemption limit (which is $14,000 in 2015).  If the disabled individual is receiving SSI and Medicaid, the first $100,000 held in an ABLE account will be exempted from the SSI $2,000 individual resource limit.  If an ABLE account exceeds $100,000, the account beneficiary will be suspended from eligibility for SSI benefits but will continue to be eligible for Medicaid.  Upon the death of the account beneficiary, assets remaining in the ABLE account will be reimbursed to any state Medicaid plan that provided assistance from the day the ABLE account was established.

4. What types of expenses can be paid from an ABLE account?  An ABLE account may be used to pay for a “qualified disability expense,” which means any expense related to the beneficiary as a result of living with their disability.  These expenses may include medical and dental care, education, employment training, housing, assistive technology, personal support services, health care expenses, financial management, and administrative services.  

5. When will able accounts be available?  Although the ABLE Act was signed into law in December 2014, regulations will need to be established by the Department of Treasury before states can begin to set up procedures for managing ABLE accounts.  Once these regulations are issued (which is anticipated to occur later in 2015), each state will be responsible for establishing and operating their own ABLE program.

Since the money in an ABLE account can grow tax free and be accessed on a tax-free basis for qualifying expenses, these accounts could be a valuable resource for certain disabled individuals and their families. Although we’re waiting on regulations to be adopted, now is the time to begin thinking about whether an ABLE account is a good fit for your family’s circumstances. Please contact us today to learn more about ABLE accounts and disability planning.

Contact Bobby Sawyer at (704) 266.0727 or rsawyer@sawyer-law.com with any questions or issues, or if you would like to discuss some strategies for addressing this topic.

Paying for College . . . and Accomplishing Estate Planning Too

With higher education costs outpacing inflation by 5-6% per year, and the average cost of a four-year public school at nearly $20,000 per year (double that for private schools) it’s no surprise that many parents and grandparents are deeply concerned about how they will pay for higher education. Many of these clients are similarly concerned about estate planning.

One tool that can accomplish both is a college savings plan commonly known as a 529 plan (named after the Internal Revenue Code section that creates them). Contributions to 529 plans are generally not subject to gift, estate or GST tax, gains are not subject to income tax if used for qualified higher education expenses (QHEEs), and these assets are not owned by the student for financial aid purposes, making them an excellent tool for saving for college.  

Furthermore, you can “front-load” a 529 plan by contributing five years’ worth of gift tax annual exclusions (currently $13,000 per year, or $65,000 per person) free of gift and estate tax as long as the contributor lives at least five years. Thus, a married couple can contribute up to $130,000 per child or grandchild!

The downsides to 529 plans are gains are subject to tax if not used for QHEEs and there are generally limited investment options, similar to mutual funds. There are also high fees with some state’s 529 plans, so it’s worth some research. An excellent resource in this area is the website savingforcollege.com.

One key consideration is the particular 529 plan’s impact on state income tax: is the client eligible for a state income tax deduction for investing in his or her state’s 529 plan?

A good client-focused article on 529 plans’ utility for estate planning is Pros, Cons Of 529 Plans For Sophisticated, Affluent Parents, available here. 

Contact Bobby Sawyer at (704) 266.0727 or rsawyer@sawyer-law.com with any questions or issues, or if you would like to discuss some strategies for addressing this topic.

How to Stop Worrying About Running Out of Money in Retirement

Many retirees today worry about having enough money for their retirement. Of special concern is if there will be enough money to provide for the surviving spouse. This is called “shortfall risk,” and it is a valid concern. People are living longer and health care costs continue rising, especially long-term care which many seniors will need. In addition, the recent recession has given us setbacks in investments and record low interest rates. When combined, these issues can have a serious effect on retirement savings and projected income. But there are some things you can do now to help manage your shortfall risk and protect your assets.

The Key Takeaways

• The fear of running out of money in retirement is a valid concern due to increased longevity, increasing health care costs, low interest rates and the recent recession.
• Using experienced advisors who specialize in certain areas can help you increase your retirement income as well as preserve, grow and protect your assets.

The Role of Specialists

A retirement specialist can help you determine the best strategy for taking distributions from an IRA, 401(k) and other retirement accounts; the tax implications involved; how to continue to grow your savings; when to start taking Social Security benefits; and how to plan for out-of-pocket medical and long-term care costs. An estate planning attorney can help you shield your family and your assets from probate court interference at incapacity and death, unintended heirs, unnecessary taxes and lawsuits. Other specialists can be brought in as needed, for example when life insurance is used to provide an inheritance for a child who does not work in the family business.

What You Need to Know

The financial advisor who helped you grow your retirement nest egg may not be the best choice to help you determine how to take your money out. Likewise, your business attorney is probably not the best choice to do your estate plan. An innocent error by a well-meaning but inexperienced advisor can result in a costly and often irreversible mistake. 

Actions to Consider

• Be open to new products and strategies that you may not have considered in the past. For example, consider trusts combined with investments and property to manage the conflicting demands of income, spending, taxes, distributions and transfers.
• Explore new long-term care options from insurance companies. These include:
• Asset-based long-term care (a single deposit premium; if not needed for long-term care, the benefit amount is paid tax-free to your beneficiary);
• Life insurance accelerated death benefit (allows you to access the death benefit before you die for long-term care expenses);
• Home health care doublers (a guaranteed lifetime income contract that doubles your income for up to five years if you need long-term care).
• Delay taking Social Security benefits. If you delay benefits until age 70 and live past age 79, your lifetime income will be more than if you start taking benefits at Full Retirement Age (66-67). 
• A revocable living trust will avoid court interference at both incapacity and death. This is why more people prefer a living trust over a will.

Contact Bobby Sawyer at (704) 266.0727 or rsawyer@sawyer-law.com with any questions or issues, or if you would like to discuss some strategies for addressing this topic.

Estate Planning for Women

While estate planning is important for everyone, women especially need to understand estate planning and have a plan of their own in place. Here are some issues that are of particular interest to women and their estate planning.

Incapacity. 

Because women, on average, live longer than men, there is an increased need to plan for physical and/or mental incapacity that can occur in later years. Long-term care insurance, purchased in advance, can help cover these costs and can even help women remain in their homes for as long as possible. It is also important to plan now to prevent the court from taking control of finances and of personal care at incapacity. At a minimum, durable powers of attorney (for both assets and health care decisions) are needed. A revocable living trust provides excellent protection for assets at incapacity and contains distribution instructions at death.

Children, Grandchildren, Parents and Pets. 

Those raising minor children need to name a guardian in their will; otherwise, a judge will decide who will raise them without your input. Provisions need to be included for aging parents, a child or relative with special needs, pets and other dependents. (Special planning can provide needed care without jeopardizing valuable government benefits.) Additional life insurance may be needed to provide for these loved ones. A gifting program or trust can provide for the education of grandchildren and future generations.

Charitable Causes. 

Those who want some or all of their assets to go to a favorite charitable, religious or educational organization must include this in their estate planning. Without a valid plan in place, assets will be distributed by state law—and a charity will not be among the heirs. Also, proceeds from a life insurance policy can be used to fund various types of charitable giving at your death.

Protecting a Business and Other Assets. 

Professional women in medicine, law and real estate must be concerned about protecting their assets from lawsuits. Many women are also business owners, and they need to plan for what will happen to their business when they are no longer involved due to incapacity, retirement or death. Asset protection planning and business succession planning can and should be included in the estate planning process.

Married Women. 

Women who marry tend to choose husbands who are older, which means they are likely to become widowed. Without proper estate planning while married, many will see their standard of living reduced during their retirement years. Those in second marriages need estate planning that provides for the surviving spouse but does not disinherit children from a previous marriage. Also, because most married women survive their husbands, they often have final say over who will ultimately receive the couple’s assets. Women must take an active role in the couple’s estate planning. Knowledge is key—an unknowledgeable widow will likely be confused and uncertain, while one who has participated in the planning process will more easily understand it and even feel empowered.

Unmarried Women (Never Married, Divorced and Widowed). 

Without valid instructions, state law will apply and that means friends, charities and unmarried partners will not be among your heirs. On the flip side, if you are divorced or separated, you need to update documents (including beneficiary designations) as soon as possible to prevent your ex from making life and death decisions for you or inheriting your assets.

Contact Bobby Sawyer at (704) 266.0727 or rsawyer@sawyer-law.com with any questions or issues, or if you would like to discuss some strategies for addressing this topic.

Are These Common Concerns on Your Worry List?

A comprehensive financial plan that is effectively executed delivers dollar savings in improved investment returns, lower taxes, lower fees, more efficient wealth and more stable income. However, an important outcome of this process addresses what may be on your worry list: running out of money, family strife, unexpected losses and making financial mistakes.

The Key Takeaways

• Financial stress can negatively affect the health and emotional well-being of you and other family members.
• Working with a financial planning professional can help you handle your financial situation, alleviate worry and, in general, help you feel more in control of your life.

Financial Worry is Common

If money worries keep you awake at night, you’re not alone. People are living longer and health care costs, especially for long-term care, continue to rise. As a result, retirement savings must last longer and stretch farther than most anticipated. Even those who thought they were prepared for retirement may now be afraid of running out of money, especially for the surviving spouse. Many families are still recovering from losses in the stock market and job market. Credit card debt is at an all-time high, as is the cost of a college education. Many families find themselves in the middle of the sandwich: taking care of elderly parents and raising their own children.

What You Need to Know

Worry about financial matters can negatively affect your health. It can lead to unhealthy coping behaviors like drinking, smoking and overeating. Cutting back on health care in an effort to save money allows small health problems to escalate into larger ones. If you have trouble sleeping, your mood, immune system and cognitive functions can be affected. All of these inevitably lead to more stress and can cause friction within the family.

Actions to Consider

• Planning is an essential activity. A comprehensive plan incorporates budgeting, income planning, tax planning, retirement analysis, insurance and trusts.
• A plan that isn’t executed lacks value. Expect to work with specialists to bring your plan to fruition: an advisor for planning and investments; a trust and estate attorney to draft the trust and estate documents; a CPA to implement tax strategies; an insurance agent to institute insurance products. If your resources are insufficient or uncertain, be open to changes that will alleviate financial stress and help you meet your financial priorities. For example, you may need to move to a less expensive neighborhood (or state). Your children may need to go to community college or state school instead of a four-year private university. A parent may need to live with you. 
• The sooner you take action, the sooner you can stop worrying. 

Contact Bobby Sawyer at (704) 266.0727 or rsawyer@sawyer-law.com with any questions or issues, or if you would like to discuss some strategies for addressing this topic.

Incorporating Faith and Values in Estate Planning

For many, passing along religious beliefs and values to the next generation is just as important as passing along financial wealth and tangible assets. Estate planning creates many opportunities to do this, including:

End-of-Life Care 

A health care power of attorney (Advance Directive in some states) lets you name someone to make medical decisions for you in the event you cannot make them yourself. This can be someone who shares your faith and values about end-of-life issues or someone who will honor your wishes. In either case, it is a good idea to provide written instructions about things like organ donation, pain medication (some may want to remain conscious at the end of life), hospice arrangements, even avoiding care in a specific facility. A visit by a priest, rabbi or other member of clergy may be desired. Pregnant women may want to include their preference on medical decisions that would impact the mother and her unborn child.

Funeral and Burial Arrangements  

Faith can influence views on burial, cremation, autopsy, even embalming. Faith may also influence certain details in a funeral or memorial service. Some people pre-plan their services and include a list of people to notify (which can be helpful for a grieving family). Some even pre-pay for the funeral and burial plots to prevent their loved ones from overspending out of grief and/or guilt.

Charitable Giving

Giving to others who are less fortunate is common among people of all faiths. Making final distributions to a church or synagogue, university, hospital and other favorite causes will convey the value of charitable giving to family members.

Distributions to Children and Grandchildren

Taking the time to plan how assets are left to family members lets them know how much they are loved, and is another way to convey faith values. For example, providing for the religious education of children and/or grandchildren speaks volumes. Parents of young children can select someone who shares their religious views to manage the inheritance. A letter of instruction to the guardian can include views on the care and upbringing of young children, which are often influenced by faith.

If the children are older and a son- or daughter-in-law is not fully trusted, an attorney can assist with providing for a son or daughter in a way that will prevent an inheritance from falling into the wrong hands. However, making an inheritance conditional or disinheriting a child or grandchild who marries outside the faith or doesn’t share their parent’s faith can backfire. We cannot really force someone to believe as we do, and trying to do so by withholding an inheritance will only create discord in the family and may not be recognized. The emotional scars on the family, especially if a bitter legal fight results, are probably not what parents want for their family.

Transferring faith and values to family members is best done over time, by letting them see your faith at work in your life, taking them to religious services, and letting them see you being charitable. But it’s never too late. Talk to your family while you can. Explain what your faith means to you and how it has helped you through difficult moments in your life. You can also write personal letters or make a video that they can keep and review long after you are gone.

Contact Bobby Sawyer at (704) 266.0727 or rsawyer@sawyer-law.com with any questions or issues, or if you would like to discuss some strategies for addressing this topic.