Blended Families and the Need for Estate Planning

Anyone with children or modest assets should seriously consider some minimal estate planning, but the increasing number of blended families underscores the need for proper estate planning.

Blended families can involve children from a prior marriage as well as joint children, sometimes joking referred to as “his, hers and theirs.”  And blended families involve both younger and older couples, and nearly everyone in between.

When the new spouse is significantly younger, this sometimes means that the older spouse’s children are close in age to the younger.  These relationships can cause more than friction between the step-parent and step-children.

Most parents want to ensure that their assets will pass to their children, not their stepchildren.  However, absent good estate planning, there is no guarantee that their children will inherit their assets.  In fact, if the couple creates common “I love you” wills such that their assets pass to the survivor of them, there is a significant likelihood their children will be totally disinherited.

This is because all of their assets will pass to the surviving spouse to do with as he or she pleases. More often than not this means excluding the stepchildren, who then receive nothing. 

The fact that Americans are living longer, and sometimes remarrying much later in life, means that blended family issues come into play there too. A recent USA Today article, titled With more blended families, estate planning gets ugly, highlights some of these issues.  The full article is available online.

As this article states, “[a]dd the gaping generational divide between Depression-era parents, who valued frugality above all else, and their Baby Boomer children, who relish self-reward, and the dynamics can be explosive.”

Thus, baby boomer children expecting an inheritance may have to wait much longer than expected. But perhaps more difficult, who should pay for the cost of the surviving spouse’s care? Should the stepchildren be forced to use their inheritance to pay for an aging step-parent’s care, particularly after only a short-term marriage?  Or should this burden fall on the children?

There is no one right answer here, but these questions epitomize the many questions that arise with blended families. These questions should be answered with the help of counsel and proper planning.

Contact Bobby Sawyer at (704) 944.3275 or bobby@csjlawonline.com with any questions or issues, or if you would like to discuss some strategies for addressing this topic.  

Why Does a Living Trust Cost More than a Will?

It will probably cost more initially to set up a well-drafted living trust than to have a will prepared. A true cost comparison should include not only the expense to establish the will or trust, but also what it will cost should you become incapacitated and after you die.

The Key Takeaways:

• A living trust document has more provisions than a will because it deals with issues while you are living and after you die, while a will only deals with issues that occur after your death.
• A properly prepared and funded living trust will avoid court proceedings at incapacity and death. A will provides no such protection and can, in fact, ensure court intervention at both events, which can be very costly (in time, privacy and dollars) to your family.

Instructions at Death and Incapacity

Both a will and a living trust contain instructions for distributing your assets after you die. But a living trust also contains your instructions for managing your assets and your care should you become incapacitated.

A Living Trust Avoids the Costs of Court Interference at Incapacity and Death

A properly prepared and funded living trust (one that holds all of your assets) will avoid the need for a court guardianship and/or conservatorship if you become incapacitated. The person(s) you select will be able to manage your care and your assets privately, with no court interference.

A will can only go into effect at your death, so it can provide no instructions regarding incapacity. In that case, your family would almost certainly have to ask the court to establish a guardianship and/or conservatorship for your care and your assets—a process that is public, time consuming, expensive and difficult to end.

What You Need to Know.  The same living trust document that can keep you out of a court guardianship at incapacity can also keep your family out of probate court when you die. But a will must go through probate. Depending on where you live, this can be costly and time consuming.

                                                        

Costs to Transfer Assets…Pay Now or Later

There may be some minor costs to transfer assets into your living trust when you set it up, and then from your trust to your beneficiaries after you die. But these will be minimal if you and your successor trustee do much of the work yourselves. With a will, the probate court (with its costs and attorney fees) is the only way to transfer your assets to your heirs after you die. So you can pay now to set up your trust and transfer titles, or you can pay the courts and attorneys to do this for you after you die.

Actions to Consider

• Find out what probate costs are where you live. If your state has a fee schedule based on the value of probate assets, this will be fairly easy. If it has “reasonable” fees, ask an attorney to estimate what these fees would be if you die tomorrow and, if you are married, if your spouse dies the next day.
• Similarly, ask your attorney to estimate what the costs would be if you become incapacitated tomorrow and, if you are married, if your spouse becomes incapacitated the next day. (Practically speaking, this will be impossible to estimate because no one will be able to predict how long the incapacity will last or what complications might arise. The mere uncertainty of these costs should give you pause—and propel you to plan for incapacity.)
• Add these estimates to the cost of having a will prepared—and compare that to the cost of a living trust. When you make a true comparison, you may conclude that having a living trust actually costs less than a will.

Contact Bobby Sawyer at (704) 944.3275 or bobby@csjlawonline.com with any questions or issues, or if you would like to discuss some strategies for addressing this topic.

Does Your Estate Plan Protect Your Adult Beneficiaries?

If you think you only need to create discretionary lifetime trusts for young beneficiaries, problem
beneficiaries, or financially inexperienced beneficiaries, then think again.  In this day and age of frivolous lawsuits and high divorce rates, discretionary lifetime trusts should be considered for all of your beneficiaries, minors and adults alike.

What is a Discretionary Lifetime Trust?

A discretionary lifetime trust is a type of irrevocable trust that you can create while you are alive – in which case you will gift your assets into the trust for the benefit of your beneficiaries – or after you die – in which case your assets will be transferred into the trust for the benefit of your beneficiaries after death.  

The trust is discretionary because you dictate the limited circumstances when the trustee can reach in and take trust assets out for the use and benefit of the beneficiaries. For example, you can permit the trustee to use trust funds to pay for education expenses, health care costs, a wedding, buying a home, or starting a business.  If the trust is funded with sufficient assets that are invested prudently and you choose the right trustee to carry out your wishes, the trust funds could last for the beneficiary’s entire lifetime.  

How Does a Discretionary Lifetime Trust Protect an Inheritance?

With a discretionary lifetime trust each of your beneficiaries will have a fighting chance against lawsuits and divorcing spouses because their inheritance will be segregated inside of their trust and away from their own personal assets.  By creating this type of “box” around the inherited property, it shows the world that the inheritance is not the beneficiary’s property to do with as they please.  Instead, only the trustee can reach inside the box and, based on your specific instructions, pull funds out for the benefit of the beneficiary.  Creditors, predators, and divorcing spouses are generally blocked from reaching inside the box and taking property out.  

When the beneficiary dies, what is left inside their box will pass to the heirs you choose. You could decide, for example, to have the assets pass to your grandchildren inside their own separate boxes and on down the line, thereby creating a cascading series of discretionary lifetime trusts that will protect the inherited property and keep it in your family for decades to come. 

What Should You Do?

Does all of this sound too good to be true?  It’s not.  Our firm is available to discuss how you can incorporate discretionary lifetime trusts into your estate plan.  Your family will certainly be glad you did.

Contact Bobby Sawyer at (704) 944.3275 or bobby@csjlawonline.com with any questions or issues, or if you would like to discuss some strategies for addressing this topic.

Are You Wasting Money? Part 3: Taxes, Insurance, Not Bidding and/or Negotiating

So far in this series on wasting money (part 1 and part 2), we have looked at how people may overpay for housing, interest, transportation, food, clothing and entertainment. In this last part, we will look at a few more areas in which we may pay more than necessary—taxes, insurance, not obtaining bids for services, and not negotiating for large purchases.

While you may already be astute in these areas, sharing good financial practices like these with your children and/or grandchildren can be part of your legacy, as you help them prepare to be prudent and responsible beneficiaries. And, for tax management and risk management (via insurance coverage), your legal and advisory team can produce integrated tools to assist you in keeping more of your money within the family than having it leak out unnecessarily.

The Key Takeaways

• Any time you pay more for something than you have to, money is wasted.
• Reviewing tax deductions and insurance coverage, comparison shopping, bidding out services and repairs, and negotiating—these take time, but they can help save significantly.
• Any time you save money, you are being financially responsible and will find more money for the expenses in life that are really important to you.

Where People Waste Money…And Actions to Consider

1. Taxes. Take every deduction to which you are entitled. Even if a professional prepares your tax returns, it is a good idea to become familiar with allowable deductions. For example, charitable deductions, even small ones, add up—if you volunteer, keep track of your mileage and financial contributions; fill out the form when you make clothing and household donations; and instead of dropping cash into the offering box at your place of worship, write a check or set up automatic payments.  Of course, if you have significant charitable interests, trust-based strategies offer you cost effectiveness and a disciplined structure.

2. Insurance. Review your policies every year. Property values change, and it’s important to not over- (or under-) insure. For example, an older car may not need collision insurance. Increasing deductibles will save on premiums. Bundling various policies (home, autos, personal liability, jewelry) under one insurer will probably earn you discounts and save time.

3. Not getting bids when hiring workers. Asking friends and neighbors for references is a good start, but it is also important to get at least three estimates. And remember, the lowest price is not always the best value.

4. Not periodically rebidding current products and services. Being loyal is commendable, but not if it causes you to pay more than necessary. If you are able to find a lower price, your current provider may match it to keep you as a customer.

5. Not negotiating for large purchases. We all know there is profit margin built into pricing, and there is usually a larger margin on expensive items. Some vendors actually expect to negotiate. Learning how to negotiate fairly and respectfully will frequently save you some money.

What You Need to Know: It’s easy to get caught up in the current culture of instant gratification and impulse spending. We could all benefit from slowing down a bit and becoming better consumers. Taking the time to evaluate purchases and comparison shop will not only help avoid overspending and wasting money, but it results in satisfaction from being responsible and efficient with money. 

More Actions to Consider

• Evaluate how you may be overspending in these areas. Commit to following through on some of these suggestions and note how much money you save.
• Think where you could use that extra money. Would you like to pay off some debt, or save for a family vacation, car, home, college, or charitable gift?
• Start to prioritize spending and set some money-saving goals. Creating a budget and monitoring spending on a regular basis will help avoid wasting money and start meeting goals you set. (For more on this, read the previous blogs on budgeting and setting spending priorities.) 

Contact Bobby Sawyer at (704) 944.3275 or bobby@csjlawonline.com with any questions or issues, or if you would like to discuss some strategies for addressing this topic.

Are You Wasting Money? Part 2: Food, Clothing and Entertainment

In Part One of this series on wasting money, we looked at housing, interest and transportation—areas in which you or your loved ones may be wasting larger amounts of money. In Part Two, we will look at how money can be wasted in everyday areas of life—specifically food, clothing and entertainment.  

In many ways, it is the routine purchases that occur without planning that subsequently accumulate to large amounts. An area of high importance when making beneficiary distributions is for the money to be used in meaningful ways such as home purchases, education, and investing and not simply to cover shortfalls in month-to-month expenditures. These simple lessons are helpful reminders for everyone.

The Key Takeaways

• Money is wasted when we pay more for convenience, excess, impulse buying and bad habits.
• While this may be okay if it happens occasionally, living a lifestyle that consistently wastes money can cause people to live beyond their means and incur debt, which causes more money to be wasted by paying interest on that debt.
• Recognizing areas in which money is wasted, and taking steps to change buying habits, helps keep people out of debt and give more money to spend on the things that really matter.

Where People Waste Money…And Actions to Consider

Groceries. We’ve all been guilty of buying more at the grocery store than we intended. Here are a few tips that will likely fit within a current routine:

1. Plan meals for a week, make a shopping list and stick with it. Make an exception only if something regularly used is on sale. 
2. Use coupons only for items regularly purchased (and don’t buy things you don’t normally use, just to use the coupon). 
3. Buy in bulk; split the purchases with a friend if storage space is lacking. 
4. Shop without young children whenever possible to save money, time and frustration.

Eating out. If the amount of money spent in this area is unknown, track it for a month or two and consider other ways that this money could be spent. Socializing with friends over meals is important, but this is one area that usually can be reined in. Meet over lunch or an early dinner. Watch the alcohol; bar drinks are expensive, add up quickly and make an affordable meal completely unaffordable. Consider entertaining at home; it is less expensive and more personal.

Clothing. Take a look at how much is spent on clothing, especially on items purchased and not worn. Avoid shopping as a hobby or because of boredom; retailers are great at making people think something is needed.

Entertainment. Evaluate cable or satellite TV subscriptions and drop the premium channels not being used. Monitor cell phone bills. Investigate bundling phone, internet and TV services under one carrier. When going to the movie theater, go to early showings, buy discounted tickets, shop for bargain-priced theaters, and bring snacks. Check out community theater productions.

What You Need to Know:
Cash expenditures are usually the most difficult to track. Consider the envelope system (cash set aside in envelopes marked for specific cash purchases); place the receipts inside the envelope so it is easy to remember how cash was spent. Or use a debit card for even the smallest purchases.

More Actions to Consider

• Review how money is currently spent. If not using a personal accounting program like Quicken to track spending, now would be a good time to start. Carefully evaluate areas where overspending occurs.
• Start comparison shopping. Make a list of items bought regularly, including size and the last price paid. Keep the list handy for other shopping trips and compare prices. Then make a new shopping list for items at the stores with the best prices.
• Keep a running grocery list. As an item gets in short supply, add it to the list. This will make grocery shopping more efficient and save time by not having to make frequent trips.

Contact Bobby Sawyer at (704) 266.0727 or rsawyer@sawyer-law.com with any questions or issues, or if you would like to discuss some strategies for addressing this topic.